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She Outranks You

When I meet a woman I really like, it is often incredibly fun. When the chemistry is right, she's "in the range" of what does it for me, I give in to the emotion and sex and completely enjoy the experience. I'm able to break away quickly when I need to, but I always give the girl my conditions of the relationship. 
She has to understand that I:
Must have veto power over all social events.
This means I am NOT going to do every single little family thing she must attend. If they aren't family to me, there is no reason for me to attend her sister's birthday party or grandpa's 99th birthday. 
Lots of guys, young and old, are dragged from one group of family and friends to the next every single weekend. They never choose who they hang out with because their woman makes that decision.
Will not be a best girlfriend.
See the pathetic losers waiting for their land-whale wives to finish shopping? Like complete dolts, they foolishly agreed to go shopping with their wo…
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Does this do it for you?
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For most of us guys, we don't mind if a woman is average or even has a few extra pounds, but a super fat chick is a huge turnoff. Only the most desperate guys will hook up with a whale like the one in the photo above. So, why is it now being considered sexy or trendsetting? Why are television programs focused on morbidly obese and their daily struggles?
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"Why are you so threatened?" she asked.
Not only did she ask me this, but over the next few weeks at least four of her close friends approached me and asked me why I had such a hard time with my girlfriend's past.
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Back in 2004 after leaving yet another monogamous relationship, I had time to sit back and think about things. I went to the beach, got back into surfing in a big way. I went to some historic sites, went hiking on some of the more famous trails in Appalachia and the North East. 
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Want the Fairy Tale?

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